Love Café in Kips Bay, on 2nd Ave. and 25th, serves primarily Russian cuisine, is an intimate, homey restaurant run by a first-generation immigrant family from Eastern Europe settling in New York. It’s one of my favorite, go-to restaurants in Manhattan, and it’s not just because I used to live a couple of blocks from Love. The excellent food there was as practical a choice as its house wine (I kept an eye on the Croatian zinfandel), and the table setting was always pretty and sweet. The stuffed cabbage in tomato sauce and potato dumplings I regularly ordered at Love, which perfectly paired well with the zin (aside: my ex’s pet peeve was that I ate the same things or return to the same place given the available diversity in the city, which was immense — although true: I can count in one hand those restaurants closest to my heart: Curry-ya in the E.Village (Japanese); Shinobi Ramen in Bushwick (again, Japanese); Bunna (Ethiopian), again in Bushwick, a pattern of places for sure; and lastly, Café Mogador (Moroccan), well, this restaurant was both our quintessential Friday nighter, we were regulars there winding down a busy workweek in the trendy neighborhood of 1st Ave. and St. Mark’s Place; on the other hand, the food scene in the greater New York, sure we'd done it all, say, Sri Lankan on Staten Island; but when it came down to a "homecoming" those five mentioned were draws — and my reasons were very clearly domestic: traditions are grown out of these establishments offering hand-to-mouth family recipes, and you are treated no differently at the table.
I made salted cabbage today out of nostalgia. Remembering old conversations, in a deep pot I steamed quartered cabbage over whole tomatoes and herbs and vaporized the dish by simply water-salting them in olive oil to achieve sublimity texture just like Love’s. Although salted cabbage is common here in Maui (as a salad condiment), I had, however, never associated the version here with the version in New York— but there’s now a convergence duly respected and hits home. I think in two worlds:
What could be stronger, what could be more organic: I perceived the entire world as an economy, a human economy and the shuttles of English domestic industry that had fallen silent a hundred years ago sounded once more in the ringing of autumn air! Yes, I heard with the sharpness of ears caught by the sound of a distant threshing machine in the field the burgeoning and increase, not of the barley in its ear, not of the northern apple, but of the world, that was ripening…
— Oslip Mandelstam, The Noise of Time
Love’s corner two-top is set on soft white linen and vintage plates with flowers and copper-edged. Where we had always sat was sideways to a window facing northbound traffic to the Upper East Side, and taillights blur. The last months I would be living in the city was an unexpected change, like a compass un-mended, at the expense of love’s time. Madison Square was a few blocks from our apartment and I skateboarded on nights I started being alone that fateful summer; the Empire State Building towered like a starship and I glided around the winding paved paths of the park like water carrying a sad poem over stream... And I never looked back.
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